Don't talk when your mouth is full...

I believe for a fact that everybody talks about anybody and almost anything that fascinate them. I hate to say that most common than not Pinoys are known for this as part of everyday routine or culture in general. You can disagree but just my own observation, Pinoys won’t stop digging every detail of his colleague, friends or relatives lives as part of their everyday siesta. Like a novel that developing to different chapters and adventures. Funny thing before we even notice the story have different versions that’s so far away from what is real. Is it our too much interest to show business or chismis shows to think that every people’s life is worth talking?


I won’t exclude myself for there’s a gratifying feeling whenever you talk other people. It’s like an escape. Putting away for the meantime our attention from our own problems and focus on others to talk about their flaws, problems to feel a little satisfaction and righteousness. But is it really satisfying or are we just feeding our ego?

Since its a fact that everybody talks about anybody... but what if that anybody is You and you just happened to know that this everybody is making all the possible assumptions on every details of your life?

How would you feel and react? What move should you make?

Right now I am “anybody” and that “everybody” is having a Mardi Gras as a result of my actions for not being part of that “everybody”. What am I feeling? So many and hard to mention as my emotions are so high and I don’t want to regret whatever I will say. It’s really hard when that everybody you thought you’re family but sometimes circumstances proved as wrong. For now and as my mother will always remind us... “Never talk when your mouth is full... of shit” for there’s nothing will come up good.

While writing this maybe nonsense note of my current emotion, I remember one important lesson I learned from my PSI training. “What you sow is what you reap”, maybe this is only one of so many reaping as a result of bad seed I planted. I guess I just need to be ready for the coming days and continue to do things not sacrificing my values and principles. Practice more and plant good seeds/deeds.

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Colorful Life ala Photoshop

I wish life can be like this flower
I can Photoshop
Change and saturate the color
Change the composition whenever I want
Erase the unnecessary images
To be more pleasing

Appear one image from broken pieces
Seem real even if it’s not
Or sometimes you just don’t get it

Well I guess that’s what life is all about
Indescribable
But it’s in our hands
Who post process our decision?
Lies what we want to picture our lives...

I wish it’s always colorful as this one
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